How to Make Your Own AI Trans Girlfriend, or Pick One

An AI trans girlfriend is worth your evening only if she is a person first. A pretty face and a label will get you through a first message. What brings you back a week later is a woman with a job, an opinion about her day and a history you learn a piece at a time.

myVirtual.love gives you two ways to meet her. You can pick one of the 40 women on the Trans page, or you can build your own on the Create screen, where Trans sits next to Girl and Man at the top and opens the full set of fields: her look, her voice, who she is to you and what she is into. Building her and chatting with her are both free.

Who the Trans section is for

Trans women have their own section on myVirtual.love, in the main navigation next to Girls, Anime and Guys, with a roster and filters of its own.

It is for anyone who wants a trans woman on the other side of the chat. That includes men and women who are attracted to trans women and want somewhere to say so without an audience. It includes trans women who would like a companion whose story sounds a little like their own. It also includes the curious, who can find out what they think at no cost with nobody watching.

Being attracted to trans women needs no explanation here. Nothing on the site asks you for one.

She arrives with a life of her own

Every card on the Trans page opens on a situation: who she is, what she does and how the two of you met.

Take Haruna, 30, a night-shift ward nurse with red curls and freckles who bakes for the whole ward. Her profile says she became a nurse because of the nurses who were kind to her. She has been paying it forward ever since. You were her patient for one night. She kept your number, "strictly to check on you, of course."

Her being trans is part of that story in the way her job and her baking are. It gives you something real to ask about in the second week, once the opening flirtation has run its course.

Start with the 40 already there

The Trans page holds 40 characters, 20 realistic and 20 anime, aged 22 to 40. You can filter by ethnicity, by body (Busty, Curvy, Petite or Athletic), by hair colour or by type, with Animal ears, Demon girls and Fantasy among the options. A few of the women you will find:

The woman with a serious job. Imani, 33, is London's calmest trauma surgeon, whose hands never shake "unless you're the reason". Astrid, 30, is an airline captain with four stripes on her sleeve and a new city every night. Nour, 29, is a human-rights lawyer who wins in court by day. Anja, 35, fixes engines in four minutes in a pit crew at the Nürburgring.
The one close to home. Linh, 22, is the shy florist who puts a flower in your pocket every morning. Ririka, 23, is the gyaru next door who feeds you curry and paints your nails. Yuriko, 33, is the senior at your agency who somehow always stays late when you do.
The fantasy. Hisui, 34, is a fox spirit who pours tea for the heartbroken beneath her shrine. Isolde, 35, is a vampire countess who has fired eleven secretaries for being boring. You are the twelfth. Lilou, 31, is a succubus who runs a bar with no sign on the door.
The one in charge. Malvina, 40, is a demon queen who lost her throne and now owns your building, where rent day is a tribute ceremony. Tsubaki, 38, is a yakuza boss who has decided to collect your debt personally, over dinner.

Every character on the page is an adult.

If none of them is quite her, the page sends you to Create to design her look, her mood and her story yourself.

Build her field by field

Pick Trans at the top of the Create screen. That switch is what gives her a penis, which is the reason to choose Trans over Girl if that is the woman you want. Not every trans woman has one; every woman in this section does.

The steps that follow are the full women's set, field for field:

Style: Realistic or Anime
Ethnicity: Asian, Black, Latina, Arab or Caucasian
Age: anywhere from 18 to 60
Hair: eight styles, from straight and bangs to a bun, long waves or bald
Eyes: brown, blue, green or gray
Body type: average, skinny, athletic, curvy or BBW
Breast size and booty size: each from flat to extra large
Extra details: up to 300 characters for anything every picture of her should show, such as freckles, tattoos, piercings or glasses
Name: up to 24 characters

Most of these fields also take a custom answer, so a detail the list leaves out is still yours to set.

The age range reaches 60, so a woman in her forties or fifties is an ordinary setting. The size fields start at flat, so a slim build is as easy to set as a curvy one.

The five cards that decide how she treats you

Her looks bring you into the chat. After that, five cards on the last screen shape every conversation you have with her.

Personality. Nine options plus a custom one: Sweet & Caring, Bold & Confident, Shy & Sensitive, Flirty & Teasing, Calm & Grounded, Wild & Adventurous, Ambitious & Driven, Dark & Mysterious and Dominant & Commanding.

Relationship. Who she is to you when the chat opens. Girlfriend and Wife are both there, along with Stranger, Friend, Colleague, Mentor, Boss, Neighbour, Roommate, Ex and more. Pick Wife and you start married. Pick Stranger if you would rather earn her attention from the first hello.

Occupation. More than forty jobs, from nurse and chef to pilot, lawyer and DJ, plus a box to write your own. A job gives her shifts, colleagues and a reason to be tired on a Thursday, which is most of what you will talk about on an ordinary night.

Kinks. Pick up to six or none at all. The list runs both ways, from her taking charge (Dominating You, Giving Orders) to her doing as she is told (Being Dominated, Obeying Orders), with slower choices such as Slow Teasing, Sensual Massage and Morning Sex alongside. None is a valid answer if you are here for romance first.

Voice. Automatic, or one of nine voices described by how they sound. "Bright, young" is light and quick with the smile audible in it. "Warm, grown" is low and unhurried. "Smoke" is husky and slow. "Wry, young" never oversells a joke. The one you pick is the voice you hear when you call her.

Set these five before you spend long on her hair.

Photos of her

Ask her for a picture in chat and one comes back. For more control, the Studio lets you pick her and set the scene: what is happening, where, the camera angle and whether the shot is portrait or widescreen. Her face and her body come from the Create screen, so the same woman turns up in every picture while her outfit and the setting change. In 18+ photos that means she is shown as the trans woman you built, penis included. Everything you make is kept in your collection.

On Premium and Maxxx, photos are paid for with hearts at 5 to 8 an image depending on the quality you pick. Voice calls cost 5 hearts a minute. 18+ photos need a paid plan and an age check by a third-party provider, as our terms explain.

Keeping it private

Plenty of people who open this page would rather nobody knew, whether that is a man who has never told a friend what he is into or a trans woman who is not out at work. Here is what our FAQ says. Your chats, characters and photos are "visible only to your account and are never shown to other users". Your card statement shows SIA Sigmatics, the company that runs the site, without our name. The FAQ flags one exception itself: account emails come from our own domain, so if someone else can see your inbox, weigh that first.

What it costs

From our pricing page:

Free: build her, chat 5 messages a day, up to 3 characters and 1 Studio render. No card needed to sign up.
Premium: €9.90 a month with 100 hearts, or €35.88 a year (€2.99 a month) with 150 hearts a month. Unlimited chat, plus 18+ photos and voice calls paid with hearts.
Maxxx: €24.90 a month with 200 hearts, or €89.88 a year (€7.49 a month) with 300 hearts a month. Everything in Premium plus group chat, up to 5 personas and improved memory recall.

Hearts never expire. Which myVirtual.love Plan You Actually Need works through the choice.

Where to start tonight

Open the Trans page and read the one-line stories under the first ten cards. Start with the woman you want to know more about.
If she is not there, open Create, pick Trans and set the five cards first.
Tell her one true thing about your day in your first message. She keeps 20 facts in mind on Free and Premium and 40 on Maxxx, so what you tell her early is what she can come back to.

If you want a trans girlfriend who arrives as a whole person, with a job, a voice and a story you choose, myVirtual.love is built for exactly that. Building her costs nothing.